Romans 1:26,27 and the current debate on homosexuality

Romans 1:26,27 and the current debate on homosexuality

Each day I write a blog which is a commentary/observations/thoughts on the Bible. I have recently just started on Romans. Not unnaturally this involves Romans Chapter 1, and in particular Romans 1:26,27. It cannot have escaped your notice that homosexuality and Christianity are a hot topic in certain circles these days, and these two verses in Romans are pretty central to that debate. I write the material for the Bible Blog several months before it appears, so it will be January 2016 before Romans 1:26,27 appear there. However, I have put the material together (it will cover three days in the Bible Blog) into a single post here in case anyone finds it helpful. This essay has three parts:

• The Biblical and cultural background
• Comments on the text itself
• Some thoughts of a more pastoral nature

While this essay is quite long there are many who have done much more in-depth work, and from whom I have learnt a lot. At the end there will be a list of references to some of their material.

Biblical and cultural background

We now come to the currently most inflammatory verses in Romans 1. Now I will say quite a lot about these verses, but we do need to remember that homosexuality is not the the prime focus of what Paul is teaching, it is one example of the manifestation of sin in humanity. However, it is such a hot topic and one where there is much false teaching in the church that it needs to be addressed in some depth. However, there is an awful lot more that can be said that I can say here. If you want a full account of these matters, with in-depth analysis of all the Bible teaching then I would recommend the works (books, podcasts, debates on YouTube, blogs etc) of Sam Allberry, Jame White, Michael Brown, and Robert Gagnon. Some references will be found at the end.

First we need to remember what the positive Bible teaching on sexuality is. It is given in Genesis 1 and 2, and this was endorsed by Jesus, Mark 10:6-9 (just for those who think Jesus had nothing to say on homosexuality), and sex is for marriage between a man and a woman. Sex in any other context is dangerous, is sinful and is destructive (the evidence for which is all around us). It is worth remembering that in Leviticus 18 where homosexuality is one of the forbidden acts there are a whole bunch of forbidden heterosexual acts. Furthermore, having sex before marriage was regarded as a most serious sin (Deut 22:20,21). We do well to remember that when it is accepted as the norm in our society, and even regarded as not that serious a matter by many Christians. Why do I draw attention to all this? Because the charge is often made that the Bible has it in for homosexuals. The truth is that the Bible teaches that sex is for marriage between a man and a woman and nowhere else. The Bible treats all violations of this with equal seriousness, and homosexuality is one sin among many.

Now let’s look a little at the cultural background, and this mostly comes from Keener’s commentary. Homosexual activity was common in the Mediterranean world,but not in Judaism. The Jews looked down on it and regarded it as a Gentile sin, reinforcing their view of Gentiles as less worthy. Most homosexual activity was bisexual and the predominant form was pederasty, ie an adult male having sexual relations with an adolescent boy. They would commonly marry a woman later in life. However, homosexual relationships between adult males were not unknown (contrary to what some would have you believe). Homosexual behaviour was looked down on by some, others regarded it as a matter of personal preference. However, Jewish people were almost all against it. The attitude of people in general doesn’t seem that different from today! It may also be the case that the state of most homosexuality being promiscuous, with stable relationships being rare is not that different today either. With the recent legalisation of “same-sex marriage” the picture that is presented is of nice loving homosexual couples, just the same as heterosexual couples except both are men, or both are women. This may not be an accurate representation of the totality of the situation. Indeed, Evan Davies (a BBC reporter and presenter who is gay) recently got in trouble for saying that gays are generally very promiscuous. Now I am very cautious about arguments from either side on this, but we should not take things at face value.

Anyone interested in looking at these matters in more details should go to the works of the authors mentioned earlier.

Comments on Romans 1:26,27 itself

“God gave them over ...”. Again we have this phrase which appears several times in Romans 1. A common argument today is that people are “born gay”, sometimes people ask “if homosexuality is wrong why did God make me gay?” Well first of all the matter of being “born gay” is to say the least very contentious, and certainly not everyone who practices homosexuality is “born gay”. However, taking this verse talks of God giving people over to shameful lusts. It also talks about homosexual relations being unnatural. Again, this deeply offends our society. So what is the Bible saying? Well sex is intimately connected to reproduction. Reproduction is not the only purpose of sex, but it is a very important one! Homosexual sex clearly cannot lead to reproduction. So what is the Bible view of someone having homosexual feelings? It is that these are a symptom of the fall, they are a symptom of our sinful nature. Now, remember that Paul is using homosexuality as one example. All (or virtually all, but probably all)  of us have a corrupted sexual nature. If you have heterosexual feelings of lust for someone other than your wife that is a symptom of your fallen nature. So homosexuals are not special in this sense.

Now revisionists say that Paul was talking about pederasty and so is not condemning stable same-sex relations. This is a specious argument produced by people whose only aim is to justify sin. Even if Paul did have pederasty in mostly in mind that is no argument for saying the Bible is OK with stable same-sex relations. There is not a single positive word in the Bible about homosexuality.

Moreover, verses 26 and 27 speak of women having relations with each other, and of men having lust for one another. So there seems to be a mutuality here, and it is certainly not clear from the text that Paul only has pederasty in mind.

He then says that they “received in themselves the due penalty for their error.” Now what does this mean, and what about the undoubted offence it could cause a gay person? Well we see here the effect of sin. We often think of sin purely in terms of what we do and of it being bad. This is all true of course, but there is more to it. When we sin we become a slave of sin, as Jesus said (John 8:34). Sin takes over our lives like a cancer, and this is the effect of all sin. Heterosexual lust has the same effect, hatred has the same effect, lying has the same effect.

So what else can we say? Two things at least. First to reiterate, homosexuality is being used as an example by Paul. The majority of sexual sin is heterosexual in nature. All sexual sin causes immense pain. Heterosexual sin leads to the murder of millions of babies in abortion, homosexual sin does not. Heterosexual sin is predominantly (though not entirely) responsible for the sex trade and trafficking of women (and children) for sexual purposes. Heterosexual sin is primarily responsible for the increasing sexualisation of our children. I could go on, but I won’t. The Bible teaching is that anything outside of God’s plan of sex within the marriage of a man and a woman is sin and is destructive, both on those involved and on society as a whole.

Secondly, we need to remember where all this is leading in Romans and that is to God’s gift of salvation in Christ for all. Reading these verses and writing this stuff my thoughts are the sooner we get to the latter part of chapter 3 in Romans the better!

There are those who look at this thinking “you homosexuals are a reprobate bunch of sinners”. Well yes they are, but so are we, so are you. So is anyone without Christ, and in Chapter 2 Paul will turn to those who have such an attitude. Next I will make a few pastoral comments because I realise that what the Bible says here is uncompromising and cuts to the quick.

Some comments of a more pastoral nature

So what if you do experience same-sex-attraction (SSA)? Where does all this leave you? Well, if this is you well done for sticking with this! Let me say a few things, let me also refer you to the Living Out website, which you might find helpful.

As I have said before, Paul is talking about homosexuality here as one example of sin. Later he will talk about salvation and that salvation is open to all, and all here does mean all. So what if you experience SSA, does that exclude you from the kingdom of God? In itself it does not, in the same way that feelings of heterosexual lust do not. What matters is what we do in response to these feelings. If we indulge or entertain these thoughts, whether SSA or heterosexual lust we are heading for trouble, but having to resist temptation is, sadly, a normal part of the human condition.

What about “pray the gay away”, or being set free from homosexual feelings? Well with all sins we may be set free from them suddenly, either at conversion or after some special encounter with the Lord, but this does not happen with all sins, nor even with most sins. For the most part being “set free” is a gradual process and involves learning self-control. This is the consistent teaching of the Bible. Sadly parts of the church have sometimes promoted the idea that all people who come to Christ who experience SSA will be miraculously “set free”, and if they aren’t there is something wrong. This doesn’t happen with any other sin, so why should homosexuality be any different?

Society seeks to define us by our sexuality. This is a lie, while sexuality is important, we are not defined by it. We are defined by the fact that God created us and by the fact that Jesus died on the cross and rose again for us.

What about counselling or psychological help? Well this might be helpful in some cases. There are moves in the US, and I think in the UK, to ban counselling of this nature. This seems very strange to me. If someone has SSA feelings and would rather not have them then counselling of some form might help, why deny it to them? Especially at a time when society is quite happy to promote pumping someone full of hormones and carrying out mutilatory surgery on parts of their body which are in perfect working order. Why one is OK and the other not is beyond me.

Finally, I have listened to people like Sam Allberry and other friends of his on Unbelieveable, and to Rossari Butterfield. These are all people who experienced SSA, the latter was a promoter of gay rights and a lesbian who then turned to Christ. What strikes me about them is the depth of commitment and love for Jesus that comes over, the joy in their salvation that comes over.

The gospel offers freedom for all people, and all of us are in equal need of that freedom.

Sources

Is God anti-gay - Sam Allberry

Can you be gay and Christian? -  Michael Brown

The Same Sex Controversy - James White

Romans (New Covenant Commentary Series) - Craig Keener

Secret Thoughts of a Most Unlikely Convert - Rosaria Butterfield

Robert Gagnon

Living Out

Gay Christianity Refuted - James White

David Gushee Reviewed and Refuted - James White

Sex and Relationships

Sex is very important. Why is that, if that isn't too obvious a question? It is because sex is to do with relationships. Now consider how the world's approach to sex is so different from the Biblical approach. On the one hand there is the attempt to divorce sex from relationship. We see this in things like pornography or prostitution or casual sex. Then there is the current headlong rush of western societies to seek to legitimise same sex marriage. Why do they say they are doing this? Because, according to the current world view, two people should be allowed to express their “love” for each other.

What does the Bible say? The biblical view is that sex must be confined for one place and one place only, and that is the marriage between one man and one woman. Why does the Bible place this restriction? It is all to do with relationships. First, it is only in the fully committed relationship of a man and a woman that sex will be beneficial to the relationship, bringing joy, comfort and pleasure.

Now we come to the second reason, and a very important one, in any other relationship sex will be destructive, not constructive, to the relationship. We all (or at least any sane person) know that there are relationships where sex should not play any part at all. Examples are between a parent and a child, between brothers and sisters etc. But there are plenty other examples as well. Sex should not play any part in a relationship between two men or between two women. The gay rights people are very keen on saying that two men or two women have the right to love each other. Yes they do. There should be deep relationships between men and between women, but sex must not come into it, it will only be destructive. Likewise, sex must not come into any relationships between men and women outside marriage. In 1 Timothy 5:2 Paul instructs Timothy to treat younger women like sisters and older women like mothers. Likewise, other men are to be treated like brothers and fathers.

The reason that society's approach to sex is so wrong and must not be supported at all by the church is that it is utterly destructive to relationships of all sorts in society. Conversely, the reason why we should follow God's instructions on sex is that His ways are the only ways that are conducive to good relationships, at all levels.

The church and homosexuality - the real issues

It doesn’t take a genius to realise that homosexuality is a key issue facing the church today. There was the whole same-sex marriage debates a year or so ago in the UK. In the US there is currently a big controversy over the state of Indiana and its introduction of a religious freedom act. Then there are debates within the church or Christian community around such questions as “Is the church failing gay Christians” as a recent episode of Unbelievable was entitled. It seems that in these debates we are often missing the key point.

Let’s start with “Is the church failing gay Christians?” First, why don’t we have debates about the following questions:

• Is the church failing adulterers?
• Is the church failing fornicators?
• Is the church failing liars?
• Is the church failing thieves?
• etc

Now considering this highlights two issues: one for the “gay community” to consider, and one for the church to consider. Behind the question “is the church failing gay Christians” is the implicit demand that the church say that homosexual activity is OK, but it is dressed up as “you are not treating me properly”.

For the church we need to realise what our mission is. Jesus came to die for sinners, He died on the cross to pay the price for our sins. If the church does tell society that “homosexual activity is OK” then we are truly failing people. A central part of the good news is to help people come to a place of repentance so that they can receive forgiveness and new life from Jesus.

In the US there are increasing issues over whether Christian businesses should be forced to actively participate in “gay weddings”, the Indiana controversy is the latest manifestation of this. Similar issues have arisen in the UK. As with the “Is the church failing ...” question, we again seem to be missing the point, or only considering one of the important questions. The concern is focused on religious freedom. However, as the church we should be concerned to tell people what sin is and what the remedy is. I would very much prefer to be free, but my rights are not actually the central issue. There is a lot of shallow thinking about Jesus. Jesus said He did not come into the world to condemn the world, but this manifestly does not mean that He had nothing to say about what is right and what is wrong, and even who is right and who is wrong. Look at the gospels and you will see that he frequently made “judgements” on what is right and what is wrong. So as the church we should want to tell society that homosexual activity is wrong, but we do not do so in order to condemn the world, but in order to give people the chance to repent and turn to Jesus, to receive forgiveness and to receive new life. This is often portrayed as being bigoted or self-righteous, but this should not be so. We are all sinners, it is not singling out any one group, and even if we already know Christ there is still much sin in our own lives that needs to be dealt with. The mission of the church is declaring good news to sinners, and this is where as the church we are missing the mark. We so often preach a “nice” gospel, or a “prosperity” gospel, or an “environmental” gospel. We need to preach the gospel that Jesus and the apostles preached.

Having said that the question of religious freedom is important. Let’s look at the matter of different religions. The secular response is to say that all religions are essentially the same. Any true Christian, Jew or Muslim knows that this is complete nonsense. There are fundamental and irreconcilable differences, and if you say the differences do not matter you are saying that what we believe does not really matter, and that is showing respect for no one. However, it is far better that we live in peace with each other, it is far better that we have sensible dialogue with one another.

Now if we go back to the situation of preaching repentance, we can see the real challenge. The gospel is offensive. No one likes being told they are living their lives the wrong way, no one likes being told that there is no way we can save ourselves. Now that society has decided that homosexuality is OK it is not surprising that there is conflict between the church and society.

So the true challenge for the church is how do we preach a gospel that calls on people to repent. Changing the gospel, or rather abandoning the gospel, which is what many are doing, is no answer at all, and is no help to anyone. One part of the answer is that we preach that all need to come to repentance. The gospel says that all have sinned. Whatever label we put on ourselves, or someone else puts on us, we are included in that “all”. Equally, all can be saved through faith in Jesus Christ. This is what we need to preach.